You Are Not the Problem
You spent years thinking you were broken,
because the room went quiet when you spoke,
because your questions felt like storms to people
who had built their lives on still water.
You thought something in you was wrong
because you noticed what others stepped over,
because you named what was meant to stay unnamed,
because you felt what was easier not to feel.
You learned early how to fold yourself smaller,
how to turn clarity into apology,
how to translate truth into something more digestible,
something that would not disturb the furniture.
But you grew out of that shrinking.
You learned the difference between being wrong
and being unwelcome.
Between being mistaken
and being inconvenient.
You stopped mistaking resistance for reflection.
You stopped calling discomfort a diagnosis.
You stopped letting other people’s limits
become your self-image.
Now when the room tightens, you do not disappear.
You do not soften your edges into silence.
You do not turn your sight inward like a wound.
You stand.
Not loud.
Not aggressive.
Not trying to win.
Just clear.
And clarity is unsettling
in places built on fog.
So they may call you difficult.
They may call you sharp.
They may call you too much, too intense, too direct.
But what they mean is: you no longer cooperate with your own erasure.
You no longer accept being translated into something smaller
so that others can remain comfortable.
You are not here to be easy.
You are not here to be palatable.
You are not here to be quiet.
You are here to be exact.
You are here to be awake.
You are here to stay with what is true
even when it changes the weather.
You are not broken.
You were never broken.
You were just early.




"You are here to be exact.
You are here to be awake."
I always feel affirmed when I read your words 💖
you no longer cooperate with your own erasure... fark!