I love this whole post but especially this paragraph:
"The truth is, I didn’t become this way because I like conflict. I became this way because silence didn’t keep me safe. Because being agreeable never stopped people from crossing my boundaries. Because some of us had to learn how to speak with precision—not to attack, but to survive."
I don’t fight unless I’m threatened with actual harm many people have different beliefs to me but they are not a threat in any way not placing any restrictions on me so we live in peace
Systemic harm is what I fight. My body has a hard time getting out of survival mode when it feels constantly anxious. I think I should probably live in a cabin in the woods or something 😉
I love this whole post but especially this paragraph:
"The truth is, I didn’t become this way because I like conflict. I became this way because silence didn’t keep me safe. Because being agreeable never stopped people from crossing my boundaries. Because some of us had to learn how to speak with precision—not to attack, but to survive."
I don’t fight unless I’m threatened with actual harm many people have different beliefs to me but they are not a threat in any way not placing any restrictions on me so we live in peace
Systemic harm is what I fight. My body has a hard time getting out of survival mode when it feels constantly anxious. I think I should probably live in a cabin in the woods or something 😉
A cabin in the woods we loved that
Unfortunately Substack doesn’t like my phone I can’t update it and I don’t want to spend thousands on a new one
I don’t use the app on my phone because it sucks haha.
Sub stack does have some interesting stuff and it’s not complaining about the age of my phone today